Standing up your \”money dummy\”: How a personal financial model helps you own your future

It’s no secret many workers hate their jobs – so it’s no wonder the FIRE movement has gotten so much attention – even its own movie! However, two recent posts on Reddit’s Financial Independence forum highlight our job-hating emotions perfectly: \”The only reason I am interested in FIRE is I HATE my job\”  describes one individual\’s de-motivating struggle to get up and trudge into an office they want to leave before they arrive.

Another post though, \”I\’ve only been working for one year and I\’m already thinking about FIRE. Is that weird?\” – seems to me more heartbreaking. Imagine entering the workforce and in the very first year, already planning your exit from it. A recent Gallup poll finds that 51% of us aren’t engaged at work feeling no connection to jobs and doing the bare minimum to get by. That doesn’t include those of us merely frustrated or irritated, more than 70% of workers in the U.S.

As the founder of a tool that specializes in helping people achieve work/life balance, I know the reasons for dissatisfaction vary, but the fact that tracking one’s path to Financial Independence can be murky and confusing  that adds a big dose of uncertainty to our daily cocktail of incompetent middle-management and cantankerous coworkers.

Not knowing how long you may (or may not) have to punch the snooze button 3-times and buckle up for another couple hours of commuter traffic having no clear end, still working to pay-down student loans, and with no exit-strategy except one so far, far away it might as well be a fairy tale these are significant factors that make WORK a four-letter-word.

In fact, uncertainty causes all kinds of stress in humans. We avoid uncertainty so much that studies have found people would rather get an electric shock now, at a known precise moment, than maybe get shocked later. We show greater nervous-system activation when waiting for the unpredictable than the expected. Where people differ is in the degree to which uncertainty bothers them, not in their preferred method of receiving it.

In our quest for financial independence then, we work and work (or think about work), and we go to our job and dream about FIRE, but too often without knowing what that really means without a road map to take us there. We’re like squirrels hoarding away for winter, piling up acorns, but with no idea how many we may really need. We have but one certainty winter is coming.


Of course, there are no shortage of services offering to takeover this planning for us – no lack of (sometimes contradictory) voices opining solutions. But turning this exercise over to a once-per-year meet or to an automated quarterly statement, that doesn’t really solve the problem. To get really comfortable, to escape the uncertainty and fully visualize a future you own  for that you need a personal financial model.

A model is a projection, a dummy-version of your financial future. Yes, it should be as accurate as it can be, a careful and realistic documenting of situation and expectation  but this model, this “money-dummy” can become your best friend. Your money-dummy can be stretched and bent, you can twist its appendages into expensive vacations or new car payments. And in the end, if your dummy stands well, then you know you have someone you can really count on.


Whether you build your dummy from scratch with spreadsheets, or you use a tool like OnTrajectory, I have a few tips many folks don’t realize before starting:

    1. Counting is the most painful part – Getting down to reality, actually totaling your monthly expenses for the past 6-months or 1-year is hard work, but it has to be done. All else flows from this difficult first step.
    1. Most large expenses don’t last forever – Often when we begin this kind of exercise, we have several large expenses at that moment, but ones that will not be around forever. Mortgages, daycare, large car payments – these will end – and after they do, plan to save that money – not increase your spending. Get a handle on your smaller day-to-day expenses. Doing so will make a much greater impact on your life.
    1. Taxes will probably become less burdensome – If you are thinking about taking a lower income job, or “partially retiring”, your income tax rate may drop significantly. This can add-up and stretch your future financial independence big-time.
  1. One-time costs impact you less than you may think – People are often surprised that they can project a large one-time expense into their future (like a dream vacation or taking time-off), and it doesn’t have nearly the effect on their future as controlling daily recurring expenses.

I contend that \”vision\” is an underappreciated joy. That is, by having a strong money-dummy, robust enough to track your progress AND grow in complexity along with the complexity of your life – that gives us an increasingly clear view into our future. In effect, we can become our own financial fortune-tellers. What might 6-months off mean to us 25 years in the future? A good model can provide feedback right now, and either affirm our decision or give us the data to concoct an alternate plan.

Most of us usually have a similar (and pretty simple) central concern – will I have enough to NOT become a burden to someone else? How we get to that answer can take myriad paths for there are a million routes between any two points. You might go by land, water, or air – you might make wrong turns or detours, because you are not so much limited by numbers, but by your imagination in adding, subtracting, dividing, and multiplying them.

A money-dummy takes away some of our daily uncertainty, which (again) underpins anxiety. Now, I’m not saying a model alone will take away all your cares, but it may allow you to make an emotional shift about your life today because you can SEE a future you will love.


Imagine the two redditors  I mentioned who posted for advice. What if, by simply creating their own money-dummy, they realized they have a certain amount of time and freedom now to search out more fulfilling opportunities for themselves. A life without work? Probably not – but maybe they can take a summer off, create some time to ruminate and explore without worrying about alarm clocks and status meetings. Maybe they can sort out what would make them happy instead of feeling trapped because the future is so unclear.

Most of us spend one-third or more of our day at work. Work, by and large, defines us as people. I have a simple question: What would the world be like if we liked our jobs?

Having a money-dummy, a clear and established personal financial model is like a real-life “choose your own adventure” – one where you can flip to the last page to give you comfort on those days when short-term challenges feel overwhelming. In my own life, and by talking to hundreds of people who have taken the time to make such a model, I’ve learned there’s sometimes good news and sometimes bad – but almost everyone who takes the time to do it feels a bit lighter and happier just having an idea where their money is taking them.

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